Monday, April 30, 2007

Love at first site...


I believe in love at first sight. My great aunt and great uncle married only a month after they met, forty years later when she died he was adrift and never remarried. My dad proposed to my mom on their first date. Despite my hesitant nature when it comes to my heart, I too have found the dizzying bliss of love at first site...that's right not sight but site as in web site.

Friends, meet IKEA. See the beauty of the clean lines and perfect design of the chair above? Simple, chic furniture at prices that allow me to change my mind and redecorate whenever the whim hits me.

Believe me when I say that Murray is NOT going to be excited about this. Credit card, meet IKEA catalogue.

Reconstruction Site

"Buy me a shiny new machine,
that runs on lies and gasoline
and all those batteries we stole from smoke alarms;
it disassembles my despair
it never took me anywhere
it never once bought me a drink."
-The Weakerthans, "Reconstruction Site"


25 Favorites

25. Favorite Holiday-
Halloween, because when else is it okay to wear fairy wings or a pointy hat in public?
24. Favorite Season-
Autumn, my birthday, Halloween, pretty leaves, cooler weather, FOOTBALL!
23. Favorite Color-
Green, every shade from spring leaves to olive.
22. Favorite Hobby-
Reading, anything from classic novels to romance to the back of a cereal box.
21. Favorite Sport-
To play, badminton. To watch, baseball.
20. Favorite Game-
Scattagories.
21. Favorite Place-
Baum Stadium on a sunny spring day when the baseball hogs are winning.
20.Favorite Restaurant-
Mike's Place on the patio.
19. Favorite Food-
Sourdough Bread.
18. Favorite Ice Cream-
Vanilla
17. Favorite Drink-
A nice pinot noir.
16. Favorite Gadget-
ipod, of course.
15. Favorite Smell-
Baking bread.
14. Favorite Shoes-
Blue plaid Converse I had in college.
13. Favorite Clothing-
Jeans and a tee shirt.
12. Favorite Pet-
Cats, of course.
11. Favorite Movie-
"Twister"
10. Favorite TV Show-
"How It's Made"
09. Favorite Radio Station-
NPR
08. Favorite Band-
Wilco
07. Favorite Song-
"Plea From A Cat Named Virtue", the Weakerthans
06. Favorite Book-
"The Heart is a Lonely Hunter", Carson McCullars
05. Favorite Quote-
"Theology is never any help; it is searching in a dark cellar at midnight for a black cat that isn't there. Theologians can persuade themselves of anything."-Robert L. Heinlein
04. Favorite Song Lyric
"No love's as random as God's love."-Wilco, "Can't Stand It"
03. Favorite Poem-
Kidnap Poem, Nikki Giovanni
02. Favorite Candy-
Chocolate.
01. Favorite Person-
Murray.

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

Hear All the Bombs Fade Away


Sons and Daughters
by The Decemberists

When we arrive
Sons and daughters
We'll make our homes on the water
We'll build our walls aluminum
We'll fill our mouths with cinnamon, now.

These currents pull us across the border
Steady you boats
Arms to shoulder
Till tides are pulled
Hold our ground
Making this cold harbor now home

Take up your arms
Sons and daughters
We will arise from the bunkers
By land, by sea, by dirigible
We'll leave our tracks untraceable, now.

When we arrive
Sons and daughters
We'll make our lives on the water
We'll build our wall with aluminum
We'll fill our mouths with cinnamon.

Hear all the bombs fade away
Hear all the bombs fade away
Hear all the bombs fade away
Hear all the bombs fade away...


I don't feel like rehashing the last twenty-four hours but I will say one thing; officials at Virginia Tech keep referring to yesterday's events as "a tragedy" but tragedy simply isn't a word strong enough to convey the horror of what happened.
I received this email written by someone who was at The Decemberists show last night, I thought that perhaps it is more fitting than anything I could say:

"Near the end of the show, the played "Sons and Daughters." Near the end of the song, Collin (Malloy the lead singer and songwriter) stopped and said he wanted the entire audience to sing the ending line over and over again. Then he said that they would be remiss if they didn't mention the shootings in Virginia. He said that The Decemberists use violent imagery in their songs, but they don't want anyone to think that they are glorifying violence. Then he talked about how violence belongs in fiction only and how we should all hope for and work towards a less violent society. He asked us to think of the students and families in Virginia as we sang, "Hear all the bombs fade away."
This doesn't seen to translate to email well, but I thought it was a really great way of using music to deal with the tragedy."

I think so too.
-Becky

Thursday, April 05, 2007

Blogging about blogging, or not much at all in my head...

I read several other blogs with some regularity (or as much as my easily distracted hamster brain allows) and I am always amazed what interesting lives other people lead. Maybe I'm just uninteresting or maybe I have some sort of verbal constipation that prevents me from being able to describe the events in my life in an extraordinary manner. Either way, I'm terrible about blogging regularly.
Strange, rambling point made, I set off here to blog about the inaccuracies of perception. For example, sometimes our brains misconstrue what our eyes tell us. Once, while riding in the car with Murray I spotted a large dead animal by the side of the road. Despite the fact that it was clearly a deer, my brain issued this question: "Kangaroo?" Some people would keep such a bizarre thought to themselves, but being me I immediately shared it with Murray. He, being kind and loving and supportive, looked at me like he was relieved I had finally realized how completely insane I really am and hoped I would now seek immediate help.
There are, of course, more serious form of false-perception. Eye-witnesses in court are often unreliable as two people witnessing the same event can take away two completely different sets of memories from that event. In college psychology I learned that this is because our precept ions are colored by a set of pre-conceptions. Apparently my personal set of pre-conceptions include the habitation of kangaroos in central Arkansas.
The thing about all this perception and misconception is, often we don't really SEE the events happening around us. Not to get on my oft-used soap box, but whether or not global warming exists was a terrific example. On one side you had scientists, Al Gore, environmentalists, and the dwindling snow pack on Mt. Kilimanjaro and on the other side you had the Bush administration, big oil, and the U.S. auto industry. Sure, it seems like Bush and the auto makers have come around but there are still people who think that pollution isn't harmful to the environment. Crazy...at least from my perception.